I didn’t play games in high school. Had my first boyfriend in senior year and didn’t go to bed with him. I work and support myself so I don’t need a man for that. I am not a shallow woman by any means.
There’s not too much that’s a deal breaker for me. I just can’t seem to find a decent guy who wants a kind, attractive, average weight woman who only wants to love him. Now, during my marriage, I was still attracted to women my own age, or close to it. I never acted on those attractions, but looked inside as to why they were still there during a seemingly happy marriage. Once I got to 50, I began to appreciate and enjoy the company of women closer to my own age. I guess it was the decade we grew up in, the shared memories of music, the events, and the eclectic times.
And yes, waking up to a kind partner in the morning would be absolute heaven to me. Unfortunately most women today have a big list of demands when it comes to finding a man. Men must have a full head of hair, be very good looking, very excellent shape, have a good career making a lot of money, own a home, and drive a very expensive car as well.
I am out and about, but I don’t care for the bar scene, and online dating has been a waste of my time and money. The few men I have met besides this method have not appreciated me for who I am and just disappeared without a word. At almost 51, I still hold out hope that there is love out there for a decent, kind woman, but it has been a tough road. It is unfortunate that it is hard to find the genuine, considerate men like you in every day interactions. The last few men I have dealt with just disappeared. It appears that the guys who seem to need and want love the most just push it away when it is right there under their noses.
Why does an older man want to date younger women?
One of these days we’ll find each other. I am looking for a church going woman that is not over religious because of my moral values. I want to do good things for good causes and contribute my little bit to a better world. Not sure how access will be increased as she is unwilling to do so as she wants to raise him in her religion which is different than mine.
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All my sexual desires and fetishes, I only desire to do on younger women . I’m not happy about it but it is what it is. Not fair to the woman of my age who says she “can’t keep her hands off me” when I feel more of a friend attraction. I’ll probably end up single and a bit lonely but so be it. I can’t force myself to be attracted to 50yr old woman if I’m not. I am 54 yrs woman, many friends around my age divorce they seen look good and happy with their single life.
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Lumping all women into one category is ignorant. I wasn’t the lying, cheating, spouse. I didn’t want divorce and I didn’t ask for it.
Now, in their fifties, kids grown up, circle of friends, own home , they’re just not that bothered which is why they make so little effort. They’re happy to die alone with their cats if the perfect man doesn’t come along and want what they have to offer, which is often nothing. I am a mid 50’s straight male in good physical shape, fully “functional”, strong sex drive, https://hookupinsiders.com/ very financially independent, was married for 20+ years and have 2 children from my previous marriage. For most of my life I have had about as many female friends as male friends. I have been told multiple times by men and women that I am very easy to talk to. I see a lot of reference to sexuality, and speaking as a 50-year old man, that becomes FAR less important.
Friends tell me that all I have to do is flirt a bit and ask women out and I’ll have lots of dates. No – all I would get would be an unbroken string of rejections. I cannot flirt because I am not sexually attractive to any woman, so there is no point in trying. Either a guy has what it takes to turn a woman on or her doesn’t. I find it easier to strike a conversation with an attractive woman in her 30’s and 40’s.
I’ll carry on looking as I’m certain she’s out there but crikey it gets tiresome dealing with the dregs to get to her. I am still a kind hearted woman who only wanted to find the same in a man so I wouldn’t be alone for the rest of my life. If it doesn’t work out with my friend overseas who actually welcomes my care and affection, and that’s a long shot, then I will be fine alone. Get asked out by younger men, men my age, older men.
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